This is a write-up from June 2022 when I first had the idea of the Gay Slut Bible and Blog. This is also the first post with a voice so you can listen to it as a podcast rather than read if you’d like. Enjoy…
They started talking, rather casually, about the day while I was throating John and Scott was working my guts. After a minute Scott offered my hole to his friend…
So I’ve never been to a sex party. When you grow up in the South, these aren’t things you hear about often unless you luck out with a gay friend group. After hearing about them for a while now on twitter and finally living in a city that has that kind of thing, I decided, why not? I like having sex, every set up I’ve seen in homemade porn looks hot, and I’m on Prep so why not give it a whirl?
Originally I was gonna go with another bottom I knew but he had to back out so I was going alone. I tried to do as much research about protocol beforehand but a lot of it boiled down to Reddit posts that weren’t as thorough as I’d like. First off, it wasn’t at a bathhouse like many of these events are. This was at a location that also hosts BDSM nights and the like. What that had me wondering was, how to handle clothes, poppers, and lube? What kind of shoes should I wear? What should I wear underneath when I strip? Underwear, jockstrap, or nothing?
I’d bought a jockstrap recently at a store in Weho and thought about wearing it, but to be honest, it was too small and my ass was eating the straps so I decided against it. Also, the more I thought about it, the more it seemed like wearing even booty shorts would be obnoxious because I’d either be having to take them on and off or have to carry them around once the rampant fucking started. So I settled on nothing. Altogether, I took a backpack with lube and poppers inside, wore a tank, soccer shorts, and a bandanna to hold my hair back (it fell past my shoulders at this point).
At 8:35 pm on the first Friday night of June, my roommate dropped me off at CumUnion. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t nervous or I hadn’t been getting nervous since I got off work that day and began prepping. Pushing passed all that, I showed my Covid vaccine card, ID, and ticket and went inside. For clothing check, they had a room by the door where they gave you a clear garbage bag which you filled with everything you weren’t gonna take inside, clothes, phone, keys and then they put a ticket on your bag and then marked your ticket number on your arm. I put everything in except the bandana, my lube, poppers, and my flip flops. Then I walked in.
So in the middle of an active sex party I had this man braiding my hair and then securing it with the bandana. It wasn’t a bad single braid he’d been able to pull off either.
Inside it was dimly lit with a pre-recorded DJ set playing. The venue opened into the large main room which had a stage at the back with some of the BDSM equipment stacked on it. On the side were some couches and passed the stage was a hallway that led to three rooms. The first on the right was pretty open with some elbow high tables that were stabilized so you could bend someone over them. There was a sling at the back and then some other shorter tables that were upholstered with leather on top. The next room was on the left and had a big mattress set up with a sheet. In the backmost room there was a long knee high bench that was cushioned so that bottoms could bend over and get plowed in a long line next to each other. There was also a sling in the back of this one too.
When it came to the clientele, when I first got in they were largely older guys but I realized I was still there fairly early. Throughout the night there were just more guys and a bigger mix of everyone to be honest. In general, a lot of nice dick to take and a lot of fat asses to fuck.
I started out walking around once just to get an eye of the rooms and then grabbed a cup of the gatorade from the cooler they had set in the main room. Afterwards, I went back to the first room and watched a couple guys that were bent over get railed when an older guy, prob in his 50’s, ran his hand along my ass. He wasn’t bad looking and had a nice body, I looked down and saw his cock out and hard so ran my hand around it and we started kissing. I was up against one of the leather covered tables pressed against the wall and thought, why not start here? So I asked if he wanted to fuck me, he said yes, and I got up on the table with my back against the wall while he started sucking my dick. He moved to eating me out, then fingering me while sucking me off and I took a hit of poppers. A min later he slid into me and it felt just right as we were fucking in missionary. Eventually we maneuvered into doggy, with me holding myself up against the wall. It wasn’t the best sex I’ve ever had but it felt good while he stretched me out. At one point my lube and poppers fell, so I had to grab them from beneath the table, then resumed position and let him cum in me. He thanked me and walked out the room and I followed after a minute though a number of other guys had assembled around me. I wasn’t exactly ready to assume the cumdump role so I walked out of the room and sat on one of the couches to catch my breath.
So in the middle of an active sex party I had this man braiding my hair and then securing it with the bandana. It wasn’t a bad single braid he’d been able to pull off either.
After a minute a short, leaner guy walked by and stopped to look at me and I looked back with my dick in my hand and he got down in front of me and started sucking me. Not too long into that a guy I’d seen walking around came back by. He was tall, tan and goddamn beautiful so I said hey and told him he was handsome and we started talking and then making out. I started sucking him off and could tell he had already been in a guy or two. He said he had to find someone but would be back around.
At that point I got up and decided I’d do another turn around the place. It was definitely starting to fill up by then. In the backmost room, the cumdumps had assembled on the main cushioned bench and were bent over taking loads, probably about five or six of them of varying body types. Two couples were fucking beside eachother on the bed in the other room, and then some guys were breeding in the room I’d been when I took my first load. Overall, a lot of bareback fucking to be had.
I grabbed another cup of gatorade and walked into the tall guy from earlier. I found out his name was Scott and he was there with his boyfriend. While we were chatting I decided I needed to be fucked again. He steered me to the long cushioned bench in the main room. I got into doggy and he started eating me out deep before I felt his thick cock slide into me. It felt amazing. He was going at me for a couple minutes until he bent over to my ear and said, “Hey, my boyfriend is gonna take a turn.” I looked back and saw his boyfriend (John) next to him. I’d recognized him from when he was fucking another bottom in the room with the mattress. His cock was thick and I definitely felt it as he hopped in while Scott pulled out. While John was stretching my hole, Scott sat in front of me and we started making out before I started sucking him some. Scott then got up and switched with John and they were spitroasting me for a while. Spontaneous threesome with a hot couple, what’s not to like?
At some point Scott tagged another guy from the group that was slowly forming around me as I got my holes used. That guy didn’t last long til he busted in me, and at this point I needed another break. Scott asked if I wanted him to do my hair which was a mess spilling over my bandana so I said yes just because it was starting to get in the way.
So in the middle of an active sex party I had this man braiding my hair and then securing it with the bandana. It wasn’t a bad single braid he’d been able to pull off either.
Scott went to walk around after that and I drank a little more gatorade before doing the same. It was interesting because at this point things were in full throttle, but there were a few guys still in shorts. I chatted with one and he seemed uninterested in the selection, which I could understand - to each their own of course. He mentioned he was used to the ones in San Diego which did make me curious what those ones were like.
While walking around I was kind of annoyed that I wasn’t feeling like topping because there were a number of cute bottoms but I just wasn’t able to rise to the occasion, probably because of the popper usage. However, I made eye contact with a cute guy that was shorter than me, then I saw his dick and I knew I wanted to try it. There weren’t a lot of easy options location-wise at this point as most of the spots were taken so we kissed a couple times and so I turned against the hallway wall (it was pretty wide) and he started fucking me against it. It wasn’t too long before he flooded me.
At this point my hands were covered in lube so I hit the bathroom to wash them off. It was a wreck which I guess made sense but I got in and out fast. I saw Scott and John standing in the main room and went up and talked to them a bit. They said the turnout wasn’t as big as usual because it was Weho Pride that night. They’d also apparently been at Disney all day before they came which was why they weren’t bottoming. While they were talking the main bench in the room opened again, which I eyed before walking and beckoning them. We went back to spit roasting. While Scott was ballsdeep in me a friend of theirs arrived and Scott called him over. They started talking, rather casually, about the day while I was throating John and Scott was working my guts. After a minute Scott offered my hole to his friend, Adam.
Now Adam was not only hung, but his dick also bent hard to the right so after a bit I had to get on my back to accommodate him. Not gonna lie, my knees were thanking me. He kept going til he came and then John got into position. Honestly, I liked being on my back a lot more at least in the way their dicks were hitting inside me at this point. John worked another load into me and I needed another break so we dissipated again and walked around for a bit.
I took a breath and just watched the bottoms in the back room get bred. Some of them were really cute under the dark red light and they were definitely enjoying themselves. After one guy pulled out, there was another ready to go. There were some other guys hanging out at the walls like I was and one of them came over to talk to me. He was probably in late 40’s but really muscular and nice. He asked how I was enjoying it and I said I was, also I hadn’t really known what to expect with it being my first time. He acted surprised and complimented me on my body before asking if he could suck me some which I let him. There’s something relaxing watching all the round butts in front of you get filled while your cock is getting throated.
After a bit I thanked him but I wasn’t going to cum so I walked to the door where Scott caught me. He said, “You want to try one of my favorite things?” I said sure. The next thing I know, he’s ballsdeep in me, put his hands on my hips and said, “Keep walking.” So I walked into the main room with this man fully inside me and keeping pace. I bent on one of the couches and he stroked me out for a bit before he went over to John who was in one of the other couches against the wall.
Sitting on the couch, I took a long deep breath. When taking a step back it was all really intense and yet incredibly casual. Yeah, there was a circle of guys working out a couple bottoms from both ends where I’d been spitroasted earlier, but then at the gatorade cooler a couple guys were just chatting and occasionally laughing. Had they been in clothes and not in a sex club, they could have been at your Memorial Day barbecue gathered round the grill. In a way it was kind of comforting. Part of being gay is the sex scene, whether one gets into it or not, and the casualness that you could get involved and then dip out of it was kind of ideal. Everyone there was there to fuck, and if someone wasn’t into fucking with you, there were plenty of other guys ready to do the lord’s work.
I walked over to Scott and John after a while and checked in. It was apparently 1 am which made sense because I was starting to feel tired. They didn’t know when they would be heading out so they went to the back rooms. I grabbed another cup of gatorade and did a couple turns around again. By now even the main room had groups of guys sucking cocks in the middle and the bottoms were taking it wherever there was space. While walking through the hallways I set my eyes on a cute guy I’d seen make the rounds by me. He was in his mid twenties and he grabbed my ass as he walked by so I turned and ran my hand over his cock. “Whatcha into?” I asked as we pulled up to each other against the wall. “I’m vers,” he said. I could feel his cock throbbing in my hand and we started making out. After I led him into the first room I got bred in and leaned against one of the benches. He slid into me and started fucking away. Across from me a bottom in a harness I recognized from taking loads in the backmost room was hanging out. I commented on his harness and he went into explaining where he’d gotten it from and asked if I was going to the leather event the next week. Told him I was still new to the scene and a little too broke for it which he laughed at.
At that point the guy in me came and while there were a couple guys looking to take their own turn, I felt done. I thanked him for the load and went to the bathroom, washed my hands and then got my bag from checkout and switched back into my clothes. I didn’t get to say bye to Scott and John but they said they came regularly so I’ll probably see them next time, because I’ll definitely be going again.
So, after all that, here are couple pointers I thought about during and after the experience:
When it comes to attire, go with what’s comfortable no matter the space your fucking in. If that’s a jockstrap, awesome. Honestly I was glad I went totally naked.
For footwear, if it’s a bathhouse, scandals make sense. If it’s an open setting like this location was, your options are shoes or sandals. The pro’s of scandals is you can take them off easily but it also means you can’t as easily mount a bench or couch. Also, I saw a really smart move by some guys where they kept their poppers in their socks when they were wearing shoes - revolutionary honestly.
Be nice but also direct - if you’re interested, walk up and let them know. If they’re into it, you’ll be able to fuck around, if not, there’s plenty of other guys. Don’t grab anyone until you’ve gotten a clear indication they’re interested. Consent is fundamental in these spaces
Don’t feel like you have to put out just because other guys are swarming around you. If you’re not interested, just say you need a break and take a walk.
You’ll walk around a lot, there’s a lot to see and a lot of guys to do so don’t feel like you need to post up unless you’re wanting to be one of the cumdumps for community use.
Be open to the guys that are around. You may not usually be attracted to them outside of the sex party, but you’re not there to find your husband (that might just be a lucky coincidence). If they’ve got an ass you want to fuck, or a dick you want to ride, give it the old college try.
Hydrate, keep a watch on your lube and poppers, and have fun.
Darian
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After you have been bred, do you head to the bathroom to try and get rid of some or let it be lube if there is a next one?
Thanks for sharing!
I am really nervous about going to my first sex party party, mostly due to the preparation as a Bttm. Given how long you're there - did you take an Imodium or just do your normal shower shot prep before heading directly there? What time do you recommend arriving at these parties (assuming a CumUnion, or the like, party)?