My First Circuit Party

I've heard a lot about them, so I decided to try one out during Pride

So circuit parties have been hard for me to pin down until this summer.  On the one hand, a lot of guys seem to be fans of them, otherwise, why would there be so many?  On the other hand, they seem to be the perennial object of disdain from a not insignificant part of the gay/bi community, especially online.  

Now, I’ve been curious about them for sometime which is why I was down to go to my first back in June for Pride.  But there were questions like, what was I to wear?  What was I to do?  I’ll be upfront, the sex parties have always been pretty straightforward to me, even the After’s where there’s dancing but half the place is a darkroom.  Fact is, dancing isn’t exactly my forte so the sex parties I’ve just felt more comfortable approaching.  An open view of rapturous fucking? No biggie.  Dancing for hours in front of other people with a diminishing amount of clothing?  Slight anxiety from that. 

Luckily the friends that invited me to the Por Detroit in June were good at instructing me so I went ahead and just wore basic clothes on top (tank top, running shorts) and was ready to strip down to a jockstrap at the clothing check.  

What I found out about these events is that they’re rarely at the same venue back to back.  Due to the complicated nature of beverages, sound volume, and local laws and statutes, they tend to have a revolving location.  My friends weren’t familiar with this particular location it was going to be at for Pride so this was going to be a little bit of a trial by fire.  

I bought a ticket the day before on one of the apps (RAGuide) and a couple hours before it began, I got an email with the address.  In LA, a lot of events like this are near downtown as that’s one of the only places with warehouse space that’s also fairly accessible to the greater LA metropolitan area.  However, this part of the city doesn’t feel exactly safe at night and I’ve walked by too many cars with shattered windows to trust driving down there myself, so I ubered to the location.  

When I got to the entrance, they scanned my ticket, checked my ID and I walked in.  The dance area was in a warehouse with the DJ set up on the far end and the bar on the opposite side.  Next to the bar was the clothing check, so I stripped down after grabbing a drink.  My friends came in not too long after I’d gotten a lay of the land.  It was still early, but there were plenty of guys in the fog covered dance floor, though few of them were dressed down just yet.  Just past the entry on the side alley, there were port-a-potties lined on one end, and then between them, and the check in table at the other end, a number of guys were chilling. I figured out after a bit that the dark room was an actual room off to the side of the entrance into the warehouse, so I decided to investigate.  

First off, it was in fact, quite dark, with no light except for the little bit that crept in from the doorway.  The room was a square with two slings setup on opposite corners and then some chairs lined against the wall to the right of the doorway.  Overall it was a bit cramped with ten or so guys who had positioned themselves on a chair or a couple who were engaged in a little sucking action.  I did a quick circumambulation of the space and then walked back out to the space and grabbed another drink at the bar.  Vodka redbull, my go-to for any of these events.  

Around that time a couple of my friends had arrived so I met them on the dance floor and we chilled and danced a bit until one of them wanted to hit the dark room.  By this point the place was filling up.  I didn’t make it too many steps into the space before I locked eyes with a very handsome dark skinned man who was pretty erect.  After walking up to him and us running our hands across each other's bodies, I went down on him for a bit.  A minute later, I got up, turned back against him while I lubed up his dick and my hole with the supply I had in my sock.  I pressed the head of his dick against my hole and started to slowly bounce back onto him until I felt the head of his dick slip in.  Gripping his thighs behind me, I held him there for a bit as my hole adjusted, then gave in to him and the rest of his fat cock fell into me, all the while he ran his hands up and down my back.  “You’re so sexy,” he whispered into my ear.  “You’re one to talk handsome,” I whispered back. 

From there I bent over and he started to thrust deep into me, pounding my cheeks out which felt so good. His hands held my waist as he worked me out and I let my hands find my knees to stabilize.  While we went at it, some guys started to assemble around us, stroking themselves as this man picked up the pace and started to rail me.  

After a bit, another tall dark skin guy with braids walked up to me and smiled at me as he held his massive cock up to my face.  “Hey cousin!  This guy’s ass is fucking good!” the guy inside me said. 

The guy in front of me smirked down at me, “Yeah? Looks like it.” He pushed the head of his dick against my lips.  Well this was a first, guess we were keeping it in the family tonight.

For the next couple minutes I was being spit roasted, gagged by the man with braids in front of me while his cousin pummeled me from behind.  I was trying to keep up when finally the guy in my mouth said, “Hey Cuz, lemme in.”

“Sounds good,” His cousin said as he pulled out and slapped my ass. 

The guy with braids stepped up behind me then glanced at the sling next to us and moved me up against it.  I gripped the cross bars above it and he slid into me.  Lord he was bigger than his cousin and had a curve that started to beat down the walls of my hole as he started to work me out.  We kept up like that for a bit til he turned me around and gestured for me to take position into the sling.  I laid back into it and let my legs drop to either side.  

With that, this man absolutely destroyed me.  

First, he held the bars and started bouncing the sling back and forth so my hole was traveling from tip to base of his dick with every thrust.  When that wasn’t enough he leaned over me, holding the chains on either side of my head and pummeled down into me ferociously.  He switched it up between these two paces til finally he flooded me while pile driving down.

He helped pull me out of the sling and I thanked him, then meandered around the room with some other guys, occasionally getting sucked on or getting bent over again.  But the room was getting exceptionally full.  Shoulder to shoulder, chest to chest, there was little space that wasn’t occupied by someone throating someone else or cheeks getting clapped.  Also, the lack of ventilation in the space meant it was getting hot and I needed to breathe and cool down.

At various times I had to crash out of the room and back to the open air by the port-a-potties and hungout with my friends or chatted with some guys that were chilling there.  Other times I tried the fog covered dance floor.  Overall, it wasn’t bad, but I wasn’t really matching up my dance time with my friends so I didn’t dally there too much. 

Come around 4 am, things were winding down so I got my clothes back, called the Uber and headed out. 

Commentary: 

- There’s a lot of talk about how exclusionary circuit parties are for guys of different races, body types, and looks.  As far as I could tell, there was a wide variety of guys at this one.  Some of my friends would not match up at all with the supposed Circuit Queen aesthetic that haunts the minds of many on Gay Twitter, but they love them all the same.  I’d highly recommend going to one of these events for yourself (and yes, bring a friend or two) to figure out what the vibe is in your area or where you're visiting if you’re interested. I’ve no doubt there are events that don’t feel inclusive, but so far, I’ve not been to them and I think giving into the idea without trying some of these scenes out, is giving up on something you could really enjoy. 

- Dancing is a given at this kind of event, so I’d say if you’re at all into that, go to one.  I think my interests are far more on the explicit sex & play parties, but it’s cool to change up the pace so I’ll definitely be down for another circuit party sometime soon. 

- When it comes to what you want to wear, it’s gonna come down to your comfortability.  Shorts and a tank are the basics and then if you wanna strip down more from there, it’ll be at your leisure.  Definitely check the details of where you’re going as to whether they have a clothing check or not cuz that’ll determine what else you’ll need (like a gym bag to carry the clothes you’ve shed).  

- All these events are going to have their own deal and set up.  As a darkroom lurker myself, I was surprised how small this one was, but then pleasantly surprised with how busy it was throughout the night.  You won’t know what you’re getting into until you’re there.  If you’re wanting to enjoy this kind of space, bring your own lube, poppers, condoms as needed.  My personal way of storing these is to wear longer socks so that I can stuff the goods on the sides of my calves and don’t have to worry about where it went. 

- Darian Black

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